Thursday, March 23, 2017

Leading and following

About Leading and following
Tracking Stephen R Owen Apr 2016 talk
Christ is the greatest leader ever to set foot on the planet – and the greatest follower
Was he the greatest leader because he was the greatest follower?
·       He knew who to follow (God the Father)
·       He followed his path perfectly
o   In the temple as a child
o   In gethsemane (Father if it be thy will, let this cup pass from me)
o   On the cross
o   When the going got tough, he followed the Father
§  When his apostles wouldn’t stay awake, he was patient
§  When he was starving, he resisted temptation
·       Which is better? To be a great leader or a great follower?
·       How do you know when you’re on the path at being a great follower
·       Do you have to be a great follower before you can be a great leader?
·       Leadership vs management – Kevin Brown
o   The world teaches that leaders must be mighty; the Lord teaches that they must be meek. Worldly leaders gain power and influence through their talent, skill, and wealth. Christlike leaders gain power and influence “by persuasion, by long-suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned.”1 – Stephen W. Owen Apr 2016
·       Who to follow?
o   Following men
§  In business
·       If our leaders and our principles align, we can succeed
·       If not, we must choose between the boss and our eternal success
·       Brooke and leadership at Hotteez
§  In the world
·       Politics
·       Workplace
·       friends
o   Following God
§  Following our conscience
§  Following the truth
·       Don’t want to pay tithing
·       The LDS church is “too (boring/strict/straight laced…) “



John 7:16-18 16So Jesus answered them and said, "My teaching is not Mine, but His who sent Me.17"If anyone is willing to do His will, he will know of the doctrine, whether it is of God or whether I speak from Myself. 18"He who speaks from himself seeks his own glory; but He who is seeking the glory of the One who sent Him, He is true, and there is no unrighteousness in Him.…
·       Jesus was referring to himself as the is the only one who has no unrighteousness
·       He stated that all of His teachings are not His: He’s a Follower too
·       If you’re willing to do God’s will, you’ll be given more of “the doctrine”
o   What is “the doctrine?”
o   There are shades of gray to this.
§  If you’re willing to do his will a little, you’ll know some truth
§  As we grow, follow promptings immediately
§  Perfection: perfect willingness, perfect truth
·       He who speaks from himself seeks his own glory (Sean)
o   What can a person who speaks for himself eventually receive?
o   In the end, he receives only what he can give himself – which is falseness
o   As we speak, we should examine ourselves – where are our words coming from?
§  In business
§  As a parent
§  As a podcaster / video recorder
·       Are we looking for followers or to serve people?
§  In a church speech
·       Nervousness is a focus on yourself
·       Arrogance is a focus on yourself (if you relish the bully pulpit and the notoriety that comes from it, you’re speaking from yourself, not serving Christ)
·       Love is a focus on others



Christ is the good shepherd
John 10:11-15 1I am the good shepherd: the good shepherd giveth his life for the sheep. 12But he that is an hireling, and not the shepherd, whose own the sheep are not, seeth the wolf coming, and leaveth the sheep, and fleeth: and the wolf catcheth them, and scattereth the sheep. 13The hireling fleeth, because he is an hireling, and careth not for the sheep. 14I am the good shepherd, and know my sheep, and am known of mine.
·       What does it mean to be the hireling? To leave the sheep? How do we know when we are leaving the sheep?
o   It is not about being our own shepherd,
o    because we are someone’s sheep.
o   We just have to choose whose sheep we are.
·       How do we choose against making the Lord our shepherd?
·       What happens when we choose not to be his sheep?
As we make choices in our (families, alone time, at work) we decide who our shepherd is.
o   One of them is kind and leads us to perfection,
o   His way is called restrictive, stodgy, boring, unchristian, etc
o   Or we can follow another shepherd. He makes it appear easier, then he loads us up with burdens.
o   29"Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS. 30"For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."
Why does not following the Lord not always result in our burdens being lighter?
o   For even hereunto were ye called: because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that ye should follow his steps 1 Peter 2:21
Why would we flee from the Lord?
o   And a stranger will they not follow, but will flee from him: for they know not the voice of strangers John 10:5
o   Who would flee from the Lord?
§  We may feel that from the guilt we may feel
§  We may not know the love He feels
§  We may not embrace a being we don’t know


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